You know the feeling. You've been working on that project for months, picking up paint samples again because those colors still aren't quite right, or rewriting that email to your boss for the fourth time because the tone isn't perfect yet. Meanwhile, your home organization project remains half-finished, that important conversation keeps getting postponed, and you're drowning in a sea of "almost done" tasks.
Perfectionism isn't making your work better. It's keeping you stuck. Let me share a simple strategy that will help you actually finish what you start.
Write your "Definition of Done" before you start anything new.
Before you dive into that room makeover, work presentation, or organizing project, grab a piece of paper and write exactly what "finished" looks like. For example: "My living room will have the walls painted in a color I like, the clutter cleared from surfaces, and family photos hung on the wall." That's it. Be specific but reasonable.
Post your definition where you'll see it daily.
Tape that definition right where you do your work. When you catch yourself adding more things to your living room project such as “make new curtains and pillows”, read your definition of done. Ask yourself: "Have I met everything on my definition of done?" If yes, it's time to call that project complete and move on.
Remember that "done" doesn't mean "done forever."
You can always come back later to make improvements based on how the space actually feels to live in. But right now, you need to release yourself from the endless cycle of searching for perfection that doesn't exist. Your family needs a functional living space today, not a magazine-perfect one someday.
Write "Done is better than perfect" and stick it somewhere visible.
This isn't just motivational fluff. It's a daily reminder that completion creates momentum. Every time you finish something (even imperfectly), you build the confidence to tackle the next project with less overthinking.
Stop robbing yourself of the satisfaction that comes with actually completing things. Your "good enough" living room still creates a more peaceful home. That presentation you sent without one more round of edits still got your point across. Give yourself permission to be human, finish what you start, and watch how much more you can accomplish when you're not trapped in perfectionism paralysis.
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If you've got a smart student who's constantly stressed, procrastinating, or falling behind despite being capable, this free live training on July 15th at 11:00 AM EST is going to be eye-opening. I'm breaking down the three specific reasons why even the brightest students struggle with time management, and spoiler alert, it has nothing to do with being lazy or unmotivated.
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What I love about these is how they create a quick moment of encouragement without any extra effort. Just flip to the next card, and you're ready to tackle whatever comes your way. Plus, they make a thoughtful gift for anyone who could use a little more positivity in their workspace.
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This Week’s Buzz: What can I do if I create a great plan but don’t stick to it?
Are you amazing at creating weekly plans but terrible at actually following them? Do you find yourself getting distracted by other tasks that pop up right in front of you, while your thoughtful plan sits ignored in your planner? This exact frustration came up from several people recently.
In this week's Weekly Buzz, I'm sharing a simple phone trick that can help bridge the gap between planning and doing, using alarms (not timers!) to gently remind yourself what you said you'd be working on next. Plus, I'm explaining the crucial second step that prevents those missed tasks from just floating around forever, because leaving things as "I'll get to it later" without a specific "when" is a recipe for stress.
Remember, this video is only available until Wednesday, so don’t miss it! Head to The Pink Bee app to watch now.
Friend, don’t forget—just 15 minutes of planning today can set the tone for your entire week. You’ve got the tools, you’ve got the tips, and now it’s time to take action. Let’s crush this week together!
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